Strength is earned.
The biggest misconception any woman (or man for that matter) can have is to believe that strength is inherent from birth. It isn’t. It’s something that is acquired through overcoming the challenges and trials that He sets in your path. Those obstacles are like weights for your soul and—the more you lift, the stronger it gets—it’s up to you to step up to the bench and do the heavy lifting all by yourself. That’s the only way to become a stronger, more spiritually balanced woman of God.
Of course, over time, it becomes easier to remain still and shy away from the unknown because it’s easier to not keep opening the doors with unknown paths and struggles behind them. However, there is little glory in conceding to your fears and allowing your soul to cower and remain weak in the face of a new challenge—challenges that, I truly believe, He skillfully places in our paths as reminders that a) He knows you’re there and b) is confident you can handle whatever it is He presents to you.
My personal view on facing these challenges is that we should feel blessed by their presence because it shows us that He’s confident in our strength and ability even when we’re not. That realization more than anything else gives me the motivation I need to continue to face my demons—no matter how frightening the battles might seem because I know where the strength to fight those battles will come from and I know I’ll earn a few more stripes along the way if I stay the course.
Don’t ever be afraid to step up to the bench, put on your gloves, and do that spiritual heavy lifting. I promise you as each set gets harder, He won’t be far behind to help you—His hands beneath your elbows, offering you His services as your personal “spotter”.